A loved one’s dementia diagnosis can trigger an emotional journey for individuals and their family. As everyone adjusts to the new reality, it’s common to feel sad, confused, frustrated and even guilty.
While there is no denying that the family dynamic and relationships change, it’s critical that no one faces this experience alone.
Memory care communities can play a vital role in providing support and guidance to both the residents and their families.
The Emotional Impact of Dementia
Learning about dementia, the progression of the disease and common emotional responses can help both the individual and family be better prepared.
The following are common feelings associated with dementia:
1. Sadness and Grief
Dementia is often described as a “long goodbye,” as family members witness gradual changes in their loved one’s personality, memory and physical abilities.
Known as anticipatory grief, these feelings are often part of the mourning process while coming to terms with the loss of a life and relationship they once knew.
2. Anger and Frustration
Anger is another common reaction families and individuals can feel – not only at the diagnosis but as the disease progresses and becomes more challenging. Frustration levels can also increase if there isn’t any relief from the demands of caregiving or support for the caregiver.
3. Guilt and Self-Doubt
Feelings of guilt can become a constant companion if they go unchallenged. They may arise from doubting whether enough was done for their loved one or if the right decisions were made. Families often feel as if they failed if they can no longer provide care.
4. Loneliness and Isolation
Watching a loved one slowly disconnect from family and activities can create feelings of isolation and loneliness, especially for primary caregivers who may feel their world no longer extends beyond dementia. Often, friends and other family members may hesitate to visit because they are unsure or worried they may say the wrong thing.
How Memory Care Communities Provide Support to Residents and Families
Memory care communities not only provide high-quality care for individuals with dementia but also benefit their families by providing support.
With resources and specially trained caregivers, families can rely on the guidance needed as they navigate this journey with their loved ones. Memory support communities understand that it is not just the individual living with dementia, but the entire family that is affected.
1. Resident and Family Support in Memory Care Communities: Expert Guidance and Education
Memory care staff are specially trained to care for and help residents and their families through the different stages and behaviors of dementia. Families learn what to expect, gain ideas for interacting with their loved ones, and receive suggested ways to respond to challenging behaviors. Many communities host workshops where families can learn more about dementia and eliminate some of their fears and uncertainties.
2. Resident and Family Support in Memory Care Communities: Support Groups
Families often benefit from connecting with others who are on a similar journey. Many memory care communities offer support groups where families can share their experiences, learn from others, and build connections with people who understand this struggle. Along with supporting the challenges of the residents, staff can also help families process emotions.
3. Resident and Family Support in Memory Care Communities: Respite and Relief
The responsibilities of caring for a loved one with dementia can be overwhelming, particularly for family members who are primary caregivers. Memory care communities provide a structured and supportive environment that ensures residents are safe, engaged and well cared for. This structure also offers families a sense of relief, knowing their loved ones are in capable hands.
4. Resident and Family Support in Memory Care Communities: A Compassionate Approach to Care
Memory care communities are designed to provide physical and emotional care. Offering meaningful activities, sensory experiences and specialized programs, memory care staff also focus on creating a calm and comforting environment. This approach provides peace of mind to the family, as they see their loved one thriving within a supportive community.
Additional Resources and Ongoing Support
The journey of dementia impacts not only those diagnosed but also their families, all who must navigate a range of emotions, from grief and frustration to guilt and isolation.
Memory care communities offer essential support and resources to help families and their loved ones cope and adapt through education, emotional support and compassionate care.
When memory care communities become partners in the dementia journey, residents and their families are provided with the tools, understanding and support they need to face their new future.
Memory Support at Presbyterian Village North
At Presbyterian Village North, we support both the individual and the family as they navigate the dementia journey.
We focus on the quality of life for our residents with a staff specially trained in the best practices of dementia care. Residents make their homes in private apartments while benefiting from the daily interactions with others and participating in our exercise, music, art and cognitive therapies.
With outdoor seating and dining possibilities, our secure garden courtyard and protected walking paths encourage our residents to venture outside while remaining safe from wandering.
We also provide the following services:
- Licensed nursing staff on site 24/7
- Medication administration
- Assistance with activities of daily living
- Chef-prepared cuisine
- Special activities and social programs
- Access to a full continuum of care
Presbyterian Village North is a compassionate resource for your loved one and your family. Please call (800) 400-4130 if you have any questions or would like to schedule a personal visit to our community.